The Problem with Complaining


We all complain sometimes. But the problem is that it doesn’t actually help anything. It won’t make our problems go away, it won’t make them care about us more, and it will only make us feel worse about ourselves.Complaining can be dangerous because it can lead to thoughts of “what’s the point?” or “I’ll never get what I want.” If we’re consistent with our negative thinking, then we could be at risk for depression and other mental health issues.Let’s face it. No one likes complaining. Complaining is a waste of time and energy. It only brings out the negative in people and gives nobody any satisfaction. The good news is that there are ways to stop complaining today! The best way to stop complaining is to change how we think about things. Whenever you start to complain, ask yourself “What am I grateful for?” And if you can’t find anything, put on your blinders and focus on the good things in your life – like your favorite TV show or something.

How to Stop Complaining for Good

The first step to stop complaining is to identify why you are doing it. One of the main reasons people complain is because they want others to take responsibility for their problems. The second step is to get rid of all the toxic thoughts that lead you to complain, by changing your mindset and thoughts about what you are unhappy with.It’s important that when we are in a bad mood, we don’t allow ourselves to get too down, because it will lead us back into the cycle of complaining. We should instead focus on how lucky we are and be grateful for all of our blessings in life.

Newsletter #147 : The Problem with Complaining

By Eclectic Brains Magazine Editorial Team